David E. Loder

David Peake
October 27th, 2025
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4 comments
  • I have only known David for a few years .
    We met on LBi . I helped David & Jen with their beach house. I was at their beach house & going through a difficult time and started to cry. David told me in a very stern voice to pull it together Eileen. I started laughing at his comment . He was so right and I immediately turned my situation from sadness to laughter . His simple gesture pull it together has stayed with me and whenever I am going through a difficult time I recite his kind advice.
    David spoke so proudly of his children when they were visiting the beach or getting married. He was a proud father .
    He will be missed on LBi . God Speed until we meet again.

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  • Ralph David Samuel / October 30, 2025 at 10:34 am

    David Loder also belonged to an organization not listed in his obituary, a monthly gathering that began almost 30 years ago with a small group of GFS dads for conversation and cards. With only a few changes in members, the group has persisted. We all miss and mourn the loss of our dear friend and companion, David Loder. Our third Wednesday evenings will never seem the same without his presence, his voice of reason and compassion in our discussions. We hope a day will come when once again, we will all be gathered and the deal will once more pass to David. RIP friend David.
    För the 3rd Wednesday Group, “R.D.”

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  • Bernard Possidente / November 14, 2025 at 3:57 am

    Shared a suite with David, Andy, Hubert and Ted junior and senior year in college. We all reunited for the first time in 48 years two years ago at David’s house for a reunion. It was just like old times. David had a sixth sense about people- like a Zen master, just the right balance of wisdom and irreverence, and the courage to act on it, that made anyone who knew him a better person for it. Thanks David. Sincere condolences to David’s family.

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  • This news hit me like a ton of bricks, and I’m still trying to accept it since Dave had such a strong personality and was so full of life.. I have known Dave for over 40 years, and during that time we have enjoyed so many good times together: On the basketball court, on the tennis court, on the golf course, at Garden State Racetrack! Loved his sense of humor, his keen intellect, his love of sports, and his limitless knowledge on so many topics, There was never a dull moment with Dave, and he always wanted to know everything that was happening in your life when he saw you. Will miss him terribly.

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